Abrasive, confrontational, critical, and no longer giving.

She blames you too much, is too indecisive
— and complains when you decide.
She cannot have a logical, grounded conversation with you.
She is too unreasonable and won’t listen.

You lost your spine the first time you gave up ground to her whims.

She took that and ran with it.
She knew that displaying unreasonableness would get you to bend.
You complain that she fights back when you assert yourself.
That’s because you have years of damage to reverse.
You think by acquiescing you keep the relationship, even if your woman is dissatisfied.
But the truth is that…

…every time you bend, you erode the very foundation of the relationship.

Women need to be embraced.

A traumatized woman might shriek at being touched, it’s true.
But in normal circumstances, a woman will relax in the arms of your resolution.
It’s an instinctual, primal response.
She might not even know her chaos stems from your spineless behavior.
She may not know your firmness will give her a sense of safety she cannot find anywhere else.
She doesn’t yet know that’s the first step for her to relax into her most feminine way of being.
Don’t blame her for being too much – it’s your job to be her gardener.
And if you didn’t nip it in the bud, you have big weeds to deal with.

Yet, with a warrior spirit, you will solve her maze. For both of you.

Instead of giving up once again, you must stand, firm as stone, and let her respond to your calmness and resoluteness.
You are not being heartless or unreasonable, even if she says so.

Just watch her.

Don’t let yourself get carried away by thoughts of “her lower character”.
That’s the mistake of the “Red Pill” men.
Don’t let your trembling be seen.
She will jump on that.

Be the eye of the storm.
Let your calm resolution speak for you.
She might revolt against it.
After all, you’re challenging her leadership.
But you will win, so you must stand.

The more you lose your spine, the more the relationship goes down with you.
The more you give up ground, the less the relationship have to stand on.
This is not just about your manhood.
But the very thing you’re providing for is on the line.

Make a move. It’s all in your hands, champion.